I tried to put myself in his place, and realized we looked exactly like what we were: a family. These strangely tied together individuals trying desperately to keep both ourselves and one another happy. Succeeding, and failing, and succeeding. When Jeremy called me up to light one of the thirteen candles on the cake, he said the kindest things, and I knew he meant each and every one. He talked about me teaching him how to ride a bike, how to swim, how to kick an arcade game in just the right place to get a free play. He was remembering the best of me. The way he spoke, I almost recognized who he was talking about. . David Levithan
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The notion that you should "try to put yourself in other people's shoes" is a common one, but it isn't particularly helpful. It can be helpful to "try to put yourself in other people's shoes" when making decisions about your own behavior. However, it can be counter-productive when trying to understand what someone else is thinking or feeling.

Source: How They Met, And Other Stories

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